Monday, September 3, 2012

Attitude And Perspective Makes All the Difference

Surrounded by negativity?

A lot of people have been coming to me saying, "Oh I just can't take this anymore. I've got so much negativity around me. I'm trying to block it out..." Are you one of them?.. Stop. Listen to yourself. You are complaining about people complaining. Really?!? How do you change it? It starts with your own attitude.

"But it's so hard..." Of course it is difficult. Anything worth doing is going to be a challenge. People tend to see the mirror before they see the person. Most will default to a negative view on things before they see what is true. You are absolutely, unequivocally capable of changing that default setting. And the more you apply a positive view on things, the easier it will become until eventually, it will be just as natural as breathing.

Where to begin... Do NOT allow others bring you down. No one can make you do anything. You always have Free Will. Ultimately, your thoughts, your emotions, your actions... are a result of a choice you made. Make it a positive choice. Your attitude and perspective makes all the difference.

So, you have blocked it out. What are you going to do now? You still have these people around you. May be it is the people you work with, those who live with you or just the general public when you leave your home for errands and such. How do you bring them up? Smiling is always a good start.

Every situation will be different, just as every person is different. Find the funny side of things. Laugh whenever possible. Be kind. Show compassion. You can make a difference. So simply, SMILE and *wink* with a little attitude tell yourself, "I got this."

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